In my life today, it is not very hard for me to be
Jewish. I’ve grown up in a very Jewish family in a city and school system with
a large Jewish population, so I’ve never felt like a minority or like my
Judaism was hurting me. That said, there have definitely been instances in
which my religion has affected me somewhat negatively. Even though I have many
Jewish friends, my observance and dedication to Judaism are always something
for me to consider. I can’t (and don’t want to) do things on holidays or on Shabbat,
I keep kosher, I am very involved in my temple and in NFTY, and I have a lot of
Jewish friends I like to be with when I’m not in school. For all of those
reasons, my social life at home is often determined by Judaism. However,
because Judaism is so important to me, when I do find myself choosing between
Judaism and something else, Judaism wins most of the time. If a friend wants to
hang out, and it is Passover, I would (and do) say that I’m unavailable. To me,
my family and tradition are just much more important than being with friends,
so it’s rarely a hard decision for me. In that regard, I feel extremely
blessed. I know that many people do not have the ability to be so open about
their religion, and I really love and appreciate that I can.
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